The following article is from the website of Dr. Jane Bluestein. It discusses the benefits of asking questions of children instead of giving answers. If you click on the article title above, it will take you to Dr. Bluestein's website. Please enjoy.
9 Benefits of Asking Questions instead of Giving Answers
- Questions help children explore dimensions of a problem.
- Questions help children explore their available options.
- Questions help children identify their goals and intentions.
- Questions draw solutions from the child.
- Questions communicate your trust in the child's ability to solve a problem.
- Questions place the responsibility for finding a solution on the child.
- Questions allow you to help the child anticipate probable outcomes of various choices, helping her evaluate the choices she has.
- Questions build confidence and independence in problem solving.
- The process of asking instead of telling puts you in the role of facilitator or guide, rather than rescuer. It helps build skills and confidence kids can rely on when an adult isn't around to tell them what to do.
Excerpt from The Parent's Little Book of Lists: Do's and Don't of Effective Parenting, by Jane Bluestein, Ph.D., copyright 1997, Health Communications, Inc., Deerfield Beach, FL.